Luann de Lesseps dropped a bomb on her Real Housewives of New York co-stars final season when she introduced her engagement to businessman Tom D’Agostino. The information rankled fellow Housewives, two of whom, Ramona Singer and Sonja Morgan, claimed to have dated D’Agostino (particularly, Morgan used the time period “lovers.”) Further drama ensued when RHONY costar Bethenny Frankel revealed that she’d seen a photograph of D’Agostino kissing another woman. Countess Luann finally dismissed her fiancé’s conduct as a one-time factor and the couple moved ahead with their wedding ceremony plans, although Luann discovered herself continuously defending their relationship from the opposite Housewives’ criticism and gossip. When they wed on New Year’s Eve, additionally the groom’s 50th birthday, the one Housewife invited was Dorinda Medley. Season 9, filmed final fall and at present airing on Bravo, facilities across the rigidity and harm emotions that arose from the perceived slight of not being invited to the nuptials.
Here, we speak with Luann D’Agostino concerning the nature of feminine friendships, why RHONY viewers love the drama, and whether or not or not she’s truly pals together with her costars. (The dialog was frivolously edited for readability and size.)
The different Housewives are unsupportive of your relationship. Why do you assume feminine buddies typically attempt to sabotage one another?
I feel you already know who your mates are, and your actual buddies stand by you and respect your choice and are supportive. I feel quite a bit of women are really sad and as an alternative of wishing happiness on their buddies they sort of put their unhappiness on you. You have to actually dig deep in your self to say, That’s not proper, I have to be glad for my pal. Only then can you discover that sort of happiness for your self. Because it isn’t a superb look.
Why do you assume viewers like watching different women struggle and gossip about one another?
It’s a pure factor. It’s like if you cease to see a automotive accident on the aspect of the street, you recognize what I imply? It’s curiosity. [On the show] we’re identical to everyone else. We bicker, we now have fights with our associates. We have the identical issues that everyone has, so it is sort of good to see that you simply’re not alone. You can determine with it and go, oh my gosh, that occurred to me, or I’ve a girlfriend like that, or, I can not consider she stated that. It’s half of our human nature. If it have been an enormous love fest I do not know that folks would adore it as a lot.
“When we see each other outside of the show, it’s like your cousin you haven’t seen in a while. It’s funny but they’re like family.”
You do not assume individuals want to watch an enormous love fest?
Well, actually each. Why have one factor on the menu when you’ll be able to have two? There’s quite a bit of drama, of course, on the present as a result of we’re so much of huge personalities. There’s drama after which there are moments the place we do have lots of enjoyable collectively. I grew up with six brothers and sisters and also you study to handle all of these individuals. Some are higher at it than others. I all the time say it is my discombobulated Housewives household. When we see one another outdoors of the present, it is like your cousin you have not seen shortly. It’s humorous, it is a bizarre factor, however they’re like household.
Do you truly see one another outdoors of the present?
Sure, of course. That’s why the present works, as a result of we’re truly in the identical social circles. I’ve recognized Tinsley [Mortimer] because the ’90s, you recognize, not likely nicely, however I might seen her earlier than at events. Maybe it is onerous for somebody who’s not in our social circle to interrupt into the present. As you’ve got seen, Housewives come and go. That’s what makes the present so great-we do even have previous, deep friendships from years [back].
What are you most afraid to see play out within the present season? What do you assume will most shock audiences?
Well, actually, I do not stay in worry mode. I all the time brace myself and go, how is that going to end up? Bravo did not come to do the marriage, however I am sharing video [from the] wedding ceremony…I am wanting ahead to that, for individuals to truly get to see the marriage, as a result of I do not assume that they assume they are going to get to see the marriage on the present. I needed [the wedding] to be intimate and private, simply household and associates, and I did not need to have the cameras there so I agreed to provide footage to Bravo. I felt like I used to be dishonest the followers if I did not give them an element of such a magical second for me.
“I happened to marry a French aristocrat but I had worked since I was 16 years old, babysitting and washing dishes in rest home.”
Speaking of followers, viewers should assume they’ve a good suggestion of who you’re. What’s the aspect of you we do not get to see on the present?
You know, I really like individuals. I like to have enjoyable. I am an approachable individual. Like I stated, I’ve an enormous household and I am very near them. I do not deliver them on the present as a result of that is my life they usually have totally different lives. Quite a bit of individuals do not know that I am a nurse as properly. I feel individuals assume, oh, the Countess, they usually have these preconceived notions that I am this stuck-up countess-it’s so not true.
Being a nurse isn’t a glamorous occupation.
No, it isn’t, and I used to be a geriatric nurse. Did you ever see the special that Bravo did on my life, [Before LuAnn de Lesseps Was a Housewife]? You ought to. I grew up in a middle-class household as one of seven youngsters. I occurred to marry a French aristocrat however I had labored since I used to be 16 years previous, babysitting and washing dishes in relaxation residence. I turned a nurse as a result of I fell in love with aged. Then I turned a mannequin, moved to Italy, and labored for Italian tv. I’ve an entire previous. And additionally, I am a mom. I am busy being a mom to my youngsters, despite the fact that they’re grown, youngsters all the time want you. And I’ve a enterprise. Lots of individuals assume I do not work, nicely, I do. I had a attire line, and I’ve a bedding line that is popping out this fall-a hopeless romantic assortment for brides. I am having a good time with it. I am busy being a mother, being a spouse, and being a businesswoman. There’s much more to me than meets the attention.
The means the present is edited should play a task in others’ perceptions of you.
That too. The hardest factor is giving over management [to the editors]. Can you think about if there have been seven women within the [editing] room? We’re the expertise they usually know the right way to make it into a fantastic TV present.
Maria, sadly I’ve obtained to run, I am with Tom, we’re in Napa and we’re happening a wine tasting tour.
Okay, thanks in your time.
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