Taking a trip to Disney World may be considered one of two issues for folks: a total nightmare, or a magically fun time. But for folks who’re separated, if it is going to fall within the latter camp, it often does not contain your ex being current.
That wasn’t the case for Joseph Hawkey and Tiffany Bankert. The two cut up up in 2009, however have been co-parenting daughter Maddie, now 7, since she was two months previous. And whereas Joseph says it is undoubtedly taken a while to get to the place they’re now, he would truly describe their present relationship as a mutual friendship. So a lot so, the truth is, that they deliberate a shock journey for Maddie to Disney World – all mother and father and step-parents included.
Maddie knew going into the journey that her dad and step-mom, Brianna Hawkey, can be there to experience rides and eat amusement park meals with. But what she did not know was that her mother, Tiffany, and step-dad, Luke Bankert, have been additionally becoming a member of in on the enjoyable. The 4 deliberate the journey collectively in secret, agreeing that Joseph and Brianna would deliver Maddie to the doorway of Magic Kingdom, the place Tiffany and Luke can be ready.
“Her jaw dropped [when she saw us] and she was quite speechless,” says Tiffany. “She often has quite a bit to say, so it was humorous and touching to see her so stunned. She had no concept.”
To add a particular flare – and present the world that glad co-parenting actually is feasible – Brianna, who all the time makes personalised shirts for Maddie, made positive to have custom-made choices available. The adults wore white T-shirts that stated “#CO-PARENTING” on the again and their dad or mum title (“Mommy, Step Mommy, Daddy, Step Daddy”) on the entrance. Maddie’s identify emblazoned the entrance of her t-shirt, and “Best Day Ever” was displayed throughout the again.
“We were hoping to show others it is possible to get along and enjoy a trip with everyone together,” says Joseph of their choice to don the T-shirts (in Disney script and Mickey/Minnie Mouse ears, no much less). “The experience was very positive, especially for Maddie.”
This is not the primary time the 4 mother and father have deliberate particular outings with Maddie, both. Joseph says they’ve already gone to the Dutch Wonderland amusement park, and Tiffany provides that they struggle to do one thing no less than as soon as a month with all of them collectively, even when it is simply dinner. “But we all go to her softball games and school events, so she sees us together often,” she provides. “In fact, tonight her step-mom and I are both taking her to the school’s book fair.”
“Maddie is super excited whenever we all do things together, and she knows we all love her,” says Brianna. “With all of us working together, she doesn’t feel like she ever has to pick a side.”
Tiffany agrees, and the group famous that they are not completed but – on faucet is a summer time journey to Hershey Park in Pennsylvania.
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